1. Read poetry, even if - especially if - you haven't read any for years
2. Ditch Amazon - go to your local library
3. Begin a meditation practice
4. Make a meal from local, seasonal goods
5. Cut down your social media time (I signed up for email newsletters from my favourite creatives so I don't miss the relevant stuff)
6. Have your first or last hot beverage of the day outside in the garden
7. Challenge your habitual consumption behaviours - for example, take a break from online shopping and visit local retailers instead, or try buying only second-hand for a while. Disrupt the consumption engine in your head
8. Make or mend something with your hands
9. Swim or paddle in wild water (obviously take all relevant safety precautions)
10. Spend an evening by candlelight
11. Make offerings to your ancestors
12. Consider celebrating, marking or acknowledging the solstices, equinoxes and fire festivals to create awareness of the cyclical nature of time
13. Rest
14. Tend a plant or garden
15. Forage for wild foods (this doesn't need to be more complicated than blackberries or apples)
16. Compost
17. Become aware of the phases of the moon
18. Spend time in starlight
19. Speak your truth
20. Make space in your life to appreciate art. Obviously this is very subjective, but some artists I love who to me express wild mind include Rima Staines, Iris Compiet, Jackie Morris, Hannah Willow, Brian Froud, Julia Jeffrey, Nadia Turner and Brett Manning.
21. Read widely and voraciously on anything that speaks to you
22. Again this is subjective, but some books that specifically evoke the feeling I wanted to achieve include Wild by Jay Griffiths, The Enchanted Life by Sharon Blackie, Rooted by Lyanda Lynn Haupt and The Way Home by Mark Boyle
23. Listen to live music
24. Dance
25. Consider your relationship to movement. What would you do if changing the appearance of your body wasn't a factor? I have a particular hatred of the sterile box that is the gym, so I admit to being biased, but I love to exercise in a way that makes me feel good, which for me includes yoga, walking, dance, the occasional run, swimming and paddleboarding when I am near the sea, and the odd game of badminton.
26. Check out the ingredients in your cosmetics. Consider a switch to cruelty free products. Better yet, natural, organic and cruelty free. Or even consider making your own - books like Wild Beauty by Jana Blankenship and Freedom Face by Lucy AitkenRead have an abundance of recipes
27. Buy only what you need
28. Learn the names of the animals, plants and birds in your immediate environment
29. Wander
30. If you have the opportunity, listen to stories being told out loud - this can be magical
31. Look at the world around you with fresh eyes. Slightly cheesily, I think of being a tourist everywhere I go, and look for historical buildings, unusual details, things that tell a story about the place. I have a particular fondness for old pubs, which are often the longest-lived buildings in an area and packed to the beams with ghost stories, and if this also includes sampling a local ale or cider, well, so be it. Often we go about with half our brain in 'the great digital nowhere', and this can be a way to bring ourselves back to physical reality
32. See what's on near you. Whilst I find that minimising my social media use as much as possible is the best thing for me, I can't deny it's really useful for finding out about workshops, markets, mending cafes, live music, Pagan gatherings, community gardens and all kinds of other interesting events that help me feel more rooted in and connected to my local area
33. One concept of Stoic philosophy that intrigues me is of not being addicted to anything. I can easily fall into habitual ruts (this whole blog started because of my shopping addiction), so I find it useful to regularly challenge those habits and make sure I am in control of them and not the other way round. Phone addiction is probably one of the most obvious, particularly for those of us who are rewilding, but this year I have gone without caffeine just to make sure that I could! Maybe consider having a look at your dependencies and shaking things up a little
34. I was surprised this year to discover how much I am held back by negative body image. I have found books like Beyond Beautiful, The Beauty Myth, Just Eat It and You Are Not A Before Picture really helpful in challenging this
35. Watch a sunrise or sunset
36. Let your bare feet touch the earth
37. Feel the sun, rain or wind on your bare skin
38. Let yourself change with the seasons. Be aware of yourself and your needs. In winter, when nature is sleeping and dormant, you may find that you, too, need to rest, and go within. Don't fight this urge. Capitalism and ideas about productivity and linear progress have made this very difficult, but do what you can. (This is a work in progress for me. I recently encountered ideas about living more cyclically through the work of Moss at Walk the Spiral Path, and I was surprised by how much of an emotional reaction I had to the concept)
39. Consider learning some of the skills your ancestors would have had - weaving, spinning, knitting, pottery, playing an instrument, for example. Ancestral crafts connect us to our history and our bodies as well as being beneficial to our mental health
40. Sketching, writing/journaling or painting are all ways to unwind without resorting to the endless scroll
41. Plant lore and herbalism teach us more ways to connect to the world around us. Although there is a vast amount of knowledge available here, don't be intimidated - you don't need to know everything about everything to brew a simple herbal tea (my simplest is this: I chuck a handful of lemon balm leaves into a mug, pour on hot water, and drink) or make an incense blend.
42. Spend time with your friends and family (whatever family means to you). Sharing food by firelight is often wonderful
43. Stop mowing your lawn
44. Don't be afraid of the weather - just get a good coat
45. Go off-grid for a little while
46. Turn off phone notifications for email
47. If you can, spend a night outdoors
48. When you're outside, check in with all your senses (maybe not taste? But also maybe yes?)
49. Focus more on what makes you feel grounded, content, joyful, free or simply grateful. Living by your true priorities and values, not those of the dominant culture, is not easy, but it is importantvalues
50. Spend time alone
51. Challenge your comfort zone. So much of our money, time and energy is poured into our comfort and convenience. We are, in a sense, domesticated. How will we cope with the societal changes ahead in this era of climate change? (Many more of us in the UK will be experiencing cold and darkness this winter. Having these changes foisted upon us as the result of inept governing is, of course, terrible.) Finding ways to increase our strength and resilience could turn out to be beneficial in the long run. Common suggestions include cold water exposure, spending time in wild places or without electric light, breathwork practices such as the Wim Hof method, building relationships and communities, and learning how to grow, preserve and forage for food
52. Find a sit-spot that you can visit at least once a week
53. Care for and nourish your body, whatever that looks like for you
Great tips!
ReplyDeleteI forgot til recently how good dancing makes me feel! I hate most exercise, dancing and walking outdoors are the only ones I like. I think it's important to find ones you like!
ReplyDeleteThere are lots of other great suggestions here too!